Thursday, 10 September 2009

Y is it that as you approach into your 30s...people will tend to be annoying? they'd want to know ur life planning...especially whom r u with n when r u getting married??????

it's like a billion dollar question that everyone in this planet will hv to hear when the time comes...whtr you like it or not....question is....must all of us get married????????? if i'm gay and i get married to my partner...is that considered as marriage per se? what if i do get married yet i am not happy? is it worth it to be trapped in a love-less marriage for the rest of your life? what if i don't want to get married...or be married?

my best fren is of the opinion that love is a feeling that you can developed once you are married...what is important is to be committed and honest to each other...is it true???? how can you get married to a person that you don't even love? would it actually compensate if that person truly appreciates and honours you as a spouse?...and love will come naturally after that....mmmmm

my problem is that i want to feel love...being in love and loved is not enough if i cant feel love... i want a fairytale love story...where we live happily ever after...i want to be swept off my feet and all...but then life and love does not co-exists that way la...

mmmmm....till now i have yet seen nor go tru a perfect relationship or marriage...perfect to me does not involve material or monetary values...it's the feeling and warmth of the relationship that counts the most...yet i have not found it...

it is a quest that i need to go tru in order to make me belief that there is such thing as soulmates, endless love and all...oooo cupid...wer are thou???

Monday, 7 September 2009

ON...BEING HONEST

There is always a consequent to your actions...be it a good one or a bad one...but i am a firm believer that whatever the outcome of your actions may be, you need to be honest...because lying will always make it worst...especially when you are caught lying...

i am bad at lying because i tend to have this guilty smile on my face each and every time after i lie...because of this...i'd rather admit to a fault rather than be defensive and lie about it...because one lie will always lead to another and i have short-term memory to remember what i said....

As they say...honesty is the best policy, the truth will set you free...and lastly,..the truth hurts...so deal with it...


Wednesday, 2 September 2009

ON...BATTLEFIELD

I like this song...sometimes i wish things are simpler... but that would just make life a bore, wouldn't it? i need to add some spice to it...make it spicier and interesting...


ON...LIFE

I came across this quote earlier today and was deeply touched by it...it made me wondered... if only i have that someone extra special for me to whisper these words....oooo maybe someday I will have that someone extra special....till then...

One day you will ask me... which is more important?
My life or yours?
I will say MINE and you will walk away...not knowing
that you are MY LIFE...

~ Khalil Gibran ~